An OnlyFans model has revealed how she has made $20,000 talking to married men online – and claims it’s a “win-win” that saves their marriages while making her rich.
Lana May, 42, from Los Angeles, US, previously made headlines after revealing she dates much younger men and isn’t bothered that they are closer in age to her teenage daughter, Sasha, 17.
Now the mum has turned her seduction skills with men into a business – coaching them on how to “land a lady” and maintain a relationship with romance.
A self-proclaimed “sexy man whisperer”, Lana, who has 6,100 followers on Instagram (@thelanamay), believes she is saving marriages and that the men aren’t cheating – even if they view her naked photos.
“I’m a sexy man whisperer for those at a loose end,” she told NudeNewz.
“So far, it’s a pretty even mix of single and married men.
“Most of them are desperate for a connection, others are trying to revive the spark in their marriages.
“I help them; at the start of the call I’ll ask if they want coaching or sexting or dirty talk, which helps them polish up their skills.
“Some tell me they love their wives so much but they haven’t been intimate and want advice on how to get that back.
“A lot of the single men ask me how they can get a woman as beautiful as myself and I give them tips.”
The Business of Intimacy Coaching
Charging $15 a minute for 30-minute sessions, Lana has raked in over $20,000 in just six months.
The model, who already makes thousands on OnlyFans per year sharing saucy snaps, started the venture earlier this year and already has repeat customers.
She is also being praised by friends for her “service”.
The mum said: “Paying for my coaching service means these men want to work on their relationships or selves.
“And I love to be able to help with the intimacy side of things.
“I have a lot of repeated custom and I only do the coaching when I want to.
“Most are already paying for my OnlyFans so this deepens the connection they have with me.”
Is It Cheating?
Lana firmly believes her services don’t constitute infidelity, arguing that the men would simply seek similar content elsewhere.
She said: “I don’t think they are cheating by subscribing to my OnlyFans already as they would have sourced that elsewhere [like on porn sites].
“I told some of my female friends and they applauded me, saying I was doing them [the men] a service.
“They even said the wives should be grateful and should be paying for it.
“Even my daughter knows what I do and she’s super supportive.
“At the end of the day, nobody is getting hurt and it’s not an affair in the traditional sense.
“I’m saving relationships and being good-looking doesn’t hurt.”
Half a Dozen Marriages “Saved”
The sessions take place via Skype or Zoom and Lana believes she has already saved half a dozen marriages, she claims.
With the bulk of her clientele contacting her via OnlyFans, she also gets business from her social media profiles.
The coaching typically begins with Lana asking clients what they’re looking for – whether it’s practical relationship advice, confidence-building through sexting practice, or tips on reigniting romance.
For married men struggling with intimacy, she positions herself as a safe space to discuss desires and learn communication skills they can bring back to their relationships.
Single men, meanwhile, seek her guidance on everything from approaching women to maintaining attraction in new relationships.
Awkward Encounters with Familiar Faces
However, she admits to having had a few rogue fans including somebody she briefly dated and the son of one of her best friends.
She added: “There was a 23-year-old who subscribed and had paid for a load of my pictures and videos on OnlyFans.
“When he wanted the service I realised he was a friend’s son who I hadn’t seen since he was eight years old.
“I told him I would go away and think about it.
“I’m sure his intentions are like the others but I don’t know how comfortable I would be with that.
“With the guy I used to date, he must have seen something in me and wants to use that for his new love interest.”
Like other creators who’ve diversified their OnlyFans businesses, Lana has found a niche that combines her existing audience with additional services.
The Grey Area of Digital Intimacy
Lana’s coaching service exists in the grey area between traditional relationship therapy and sex work.
While she insists she’s providing a legitimate service that benefits marriages, the inclusion of “sexting or dirty talk” alongside coaching blurs lines that many partners might find uncomfortable.
The question of whether engaging with an OnlyFans creator – particularly one offering personalised intimate conversations – constitutes cheating remains contentious, with different couples drawing different boundaries.
Lana’s assertion that men “would have sourced that elsewhere” sidesteps the more fundamental question of whether their partners have consented to this type of interaction.
Her female friends’ support suggests some women view paid digital interactions as less threatening than traditional affairs, though this perspective is far from universal.
Dating Younger Men While Coaching Older Ones
Lana’s personal life adds another layer to her coaching business.
Having made headlines for dating men half her age – some closer in age to her 17-year-old daughter than to herself – she brings lived experience of age-gap relationships to her advice.
Her comfort navigating unconventional romantic dynamics likely informs the coaching she provides, particularly for men seeking to understand women with different perspectives or life experiences.
The 42-year-old’s willingness to openly discuss her dating life, her OnlyFans work, and now her coaching business reflects the increasingly public nature of the creator economy.
A Growing Trend in the Creator Economy
Lana’s pivot into coaching represents a broader trend among OnlyFans creators seeking to monetise their expertise and deepen fan relationships beyond content subscription.
By offering personalised services at premium rates ($15 per minute works out to $450 per 30-minute session), creators can earn substantially more than subscription fees alone.
The repeat customer base suggests clients find value in the service, whether through improved confidence, relationship skills, or simply the attention and validation the sessions provide.
For Lana, the venture combines financial gain with what she describes as genuine desire to help – a narrative that positions her work as beneficial rather than exploitative.
Whether wives would agree that their husbands’ sessions with a 42-year-old OnlyFans model constitute “help” rather than infidelity remains an open question.
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