Jolene Dawson, a 29-year-old model and influencer from Australia’s Gold Coast, says she’s constantly being approached by married men who are willing to spend big just for her attention.
With over 16,000 followers on Instagram (@jolene.dawson), Jolene doesn’t even have to leave her house to attract admirers – especially those with wedding bands.
According to her, the interest from older, committed men skyrocketed after she began enhancing her appearance through cosmetic surgery, including two breast augmentations, Botox, lip fillers, and cheek implants.
She believes it’s no coincidence that most of the men who message her are in their forties and fifties.
“It definitely started after I had surgery,” she said. “For whatever reason, I tend to attract older men. I’ve always been drawn to that age group, but unfortunately, they often turn out to be married – and from my experience, they usually lie about it.
I’ve ended up sleeping with a lot of married men. I don’t feel great about it, but it’s not my fault if they contact me.”
Jolene doesn’t see herself as the one to blame for infidelity but admits she does feel sympathy for the wives caught in the middle.
“I usually find out during dating or after we’ve hooked up. It makes dating really hard for me, and a lot of the time I just cut them off. I don’t think it’s fair to their wives. If someone tells me upfront they’re married, I’ll always turn them down – but most of them don’t.”
Some of the men, she says, have offered money not out of generosity but as a way to silence their secrets.
“Looking back, I realise they weren’t being generous – they were paying me to be quiet.”
Beyond her complicated dating life, Jolene has also built a small fortune from the attention she receives online. Some men are so obsessed they’ll shell out thousands just to talk to her.
One admirer, she claims, paid £1,500 for a single hour-long FaceTime chat. “He just wanted to speak to me,” she said.
“Sometimes men will send money just to help out with life. I’ve never received an amount that’s made my eyes water – yet – but I appreciate every dollar.”
As a trans model who has built a striking public image, Jolene has learned to navigate a world of attention that often comes with blurred boundaries.
While she isn’t seeking out relationships with married men, the combination of her looks and presence online continues to attract those who can’t seem to resist her – even when they should.
“I certainly never say no to a dollar,” she added, reflecting on the strange mix of romance, attention, and transactional interactions that come her way.
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