OnlyFans model Ana Nello is offering some straight-talking bedroom advice just in time for Valentine’s Day, highlighting the most common mistakes men make in bed and how to fix them.
The 28-year-old influencer, who has 1.2 million followers and hosts the podcast What’s Her, says good sex starts long before clothes come off.
Her first tip is all about effort. If you want to turn a woman on, Ana says you need to start outside the bedroom by being intentional plan a real date, compliment her, open doors, and make her feel genuinely cared for.
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Teasing during dinner, like brushing a hand on her cheek or shoulder, sets the tone. But showing up in joggers? That’s a guaranteed mood killer, according to Ana. She insists that appearance matters just as much as attitude.
Once things move into the bedroom, Ana says the clitoris needs to take centre stage. While it may seem obvious, she hears from countless women who say their partner completely overlooks it.
It’s not just about remembering it exists men need to learn how to touch it, and not every woman responds the same way. Her advice: communicate, ask what feels good, and avoid aggressive rubbing. Let her guide you if needed.
Ana is also a big believer in oral sex but says it shouldn’t be a one-way street. Instead of always expecting a blowjob, she urges men to take the lead and go down on their partner.
Paying close attention to her responses and using a consistent rhythm can make a massive difference. And if she’d rather be the one giving oral, it might be a sign you’re not doing your part properly.
To elevate things further, Ana recommends introducing toys, but with consent. She warns against diving into vibrators too early if you’ve only just started seeing someone. Instead, she suggests focusing on learning her body first and building comfort.
Beyond the physical, Ana shares that she personally finds dominance and beards a huge turn-on. But her final takeaway is more general if you’re consistently having bad sex, you might be the reason. Taking responsibility, listening, and being open to improvement is the fastest way to change that.
