Model and influencer Chloe Amour is raising the bar when it comes to dating and she’s not apologising for it. At 32, the Los Angeles-based content creator has crafted a strict checklist for potential partners, one that includes emotional intelligence, solid communication skills, and crucially a matching income.
Earning around £192,000 a year through her online ventures, Chloe says financial security is non-negotiable, and she won’t entertain a man who earns less than she does.
“I didn’t come from money, and I watched my mom struggle raising me and my sister alone,” she told NudeNewz. “So, if a man can’t at least match my income, I won’t even consider him.
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I want a partner who can support himself, me, and the family we might build one day.” With nearly a million followers on Instagram, Chloe could easily be flooded with interest but she’s picky, and for good reason.

Her list of red flags includes dishonesty, poor hygiene, excessive partying, and financial instability. Meanwhile, top turn-ons include confidence, independence, maturity, and sexual experience.
She gravitates toward older men, though she’s not keen on anyone who’s already been married or has kids. “I’m not drawn to looks first,” she said. “I want someone smart, funny, spiritual someone I can learn from and who’s also open to learning from me.”

Chloe’s refined list of dating dos and don’ts didn’t come out of nowhere it was shaped by some less-than-ideal experiences.
One man got so drunk on a date he was kicked out of the venue, leaving her to mingle with fans alone. Another turned out to be a freeloader who never paid her back after she covered all their expenses.

She’s also not into dating apps, calling them a letdown. “The guys on there are either unattractive or insecure,” she said.
For anyone hoping to catch her eye, Chloe suggests being a good communicator, a great listener, and someone who makes her feel safe and desired. Bonus points if you’ve got dark features, a tan, a fit body not too bulky and shorter hair than hers.
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