A model who gets approached by men every time she visits the gym is considering hiring a £2,400 monthly bodyguard so she can exercise without constant interruptions.
Monica Huldt, 37, from Scottsdale, Arizona, works out at least five times weekly and says she’s chatted up during every single session.
While initially flattering, the persistent attention has become draining and triggers anxiety from past traumatic experiences including stalking and a near-abduction attempt.
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The Polish-Swedish model, who has 305,000 Instagram followers, views the gym as her mental health sanctuary but finds the constant approaches disruptive.
“I get hit on at the gym at least once every time I go and I work out at minimum five times a week so it can get a bit draining,” Monica told NudeNewz.
“Most of the time I just want to be left alone so I can get in and get out.”
The Gym as Safe Space
For Monica, exercise serves purposes beyond physical fitness.
“Working out and exercising is super important to me as I do it not just for my physical health but my mental well-being,” she said.
The gym represents a personal sanctuary where she focuses on herself.
However, the constant male attention undermines that peaceful purpose.
The interruptions disrupt her workout routine and mental health time.
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Typical Encounters
Monica shared an example of the approaches she receives.
“For instance, once I was looking at my phone one day and this older guy came up to me and said, ‘stop trying to text me, I didn’t bring my phone,'” she recalled.
The opener used an accusatory joke to initiate conversation.
“I replied saying I wasn’t texting him and he then asked if I wanted to,” Monica explained.
The exchange demonstrates the unwelcome nature of these interactions.
Men approach during her personal time using intrusive tactics.
The Compliment Conundrum
Monica acknowledges mixed feelings about the attention.
“It does make me feel good to know they find me attractive as I didn’t have the best self-esteem growing up,” she admitted.
The validation addresses insecurities from her past.
However, the constant nature of the attention outweighs any ego boost.
The frequency transforms occasional flattery into persistent annoyance.
Like other women who’ve discussed unwanted attention, Monica faces the complicated dynamic of appreciating validation while wanting autonomy.
The Bodyguard Solution
Monica first revealed bodyguard hiring plans in 2022.
She’s willing to spend £2,400 monthly for the right person.
“I would happily pay $3,000 a month for someone who does a good job and can scare people off,” she said.
The role wouldn’t require constant presence.
“He wouldn’t even have to do that much work,” Monica explained.
“Just coming with me to the gym and some photoshoots, I wouldn’t want to have him around 24/7.”
The limited scope keeps costs manageable while addressing her primary concerns.
“That would be too much,” she added about 24/7 protection.
Traumatic Past Experiences
The gym attention triggers memories of genuinely dangerous situations.
Monica has experienced stalking that escalated disturbingly.
“I have had a stalker before who somehow found my number,” she revealed.
The stalker impersonated multiple people Monica knew professionally.
“This guy would text me pretending to be other people, like the lady that does my eyelashes, a photographer I’ve worked with and even a doctor,” Monica explained.
The deception demonstrated sophisticated manipulation.
“It was super creepy and I had to block all the numbers he would text from,” she said.
The stalker’s identity remains unknown.
“I still have no real idea who he was, he was just this random man,” Monica added.
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The Near-Abduction
An even more frightening incident occurred in Sweden before Monica moved to the US.
“Another time when I was still in Sweden I was waiting for the train and a guy started trying to chat me up,” she said.
The seemingly innocuous approach turned violent quickly.
“When I tried to leave because my train came he grabbed my leg as I was running up the stairs at the train station and tried to pull me into an alley,” Monica revealed.
The physical assault could have ended tragically.
“Thankfully people came and he ran off but it was so scary,” she said.
The intervention by bystanders likely prevented serious harm.
“I shudder at what might have happened if he hadn’t been interrupted,” Monica added.
The trauma from this experience understandably affects her response to male approaches.
The Context Change
Monica’s past experiences transform seemingly harmless gym flirtation into potential threats.
What others might view as annoying becomes genuinely anxiety-inducing for trauma survivors.
The stalking and assault attempt taught Monica that casual encounters can escalate dangerously.
Her heightened vigilance stems from real-world danger, not paranoia.
Married to John
Any gym admirers waste their effort regardless.
Monica describes herself as a “self-proclaimed ‘traditional wife'” who’s happily married to John, 40.
She’s previously made headlines discussing her traditional marriage philosophy.
Her marital status doesn’t deter gym approaches, however.
John’s Perspective
Monica’s husband handles other men’s interest with confidence rather than jealousy.
“John is actually pretty proud and always tells me he loves having such a hot wife,” Monica said.
His pride in her attractiveness creates security rather than possessiveness.
“He is not intimidated at all although he does get worried when I go out by myself in the evening,” she added.
John’s concern focuses on safety rather than fidelity.
The bodyguard idea likely has his full support given his evening worries.
Polish-Swedish Background
Monica’s dual heritage includes Polish and Swedish roots.
She spent significant time in Sweden before relocating to Arizona.
The near-abduction occurred during her Swedish residence.
Her international background provides perspective on safety issues across different countries.
Instagram Following
Monica’s 305,000 Instagram followers indicate substantial public interest in her content.
The large following likely contributes to recognition that increases unwanted approaches.
Social media presence makes semi-public figures more identifiable and approachable.
The Safety Investment
At £2,400 monthly, a bodyguard represents significant expense.
However, for someone with substantial social media income, the cost may be worthwhile.
The investment buys peace of mind beyond just physical protection.
Knowing someone watches for potential threats reduces anxiety for trauma survivors.
Women’s Gym Experiences
Monica’s experiences reflect broader patterns of women facing unwanted attention while exercising.
Many women report difficulty working out without male interruption.
The gym environment, with its focus on bodies and physical appearance, apparently encourages some men to approach.
Women’s workout clothing often becomes cited as “invitation” despite being functional athletic wear.
Monica’s story highlights how this attention ranges from annoying to genuinely threatening.
The Mental Health Impact
Constant vigilance about safety takes psychological toll.
Monica mentioned mental well-being as a key exercise motivation.
The gym interruptions undermine exactly what she seeks from fitness.
Rather than stress relief, she experiences stress anticipation.
The bodyguard solution aims to restore the gym as mental health space.
Traditional Wife Identity
Monica has publicly embraced “traditional wife” identity in past interviews.
This persona emphasizes devotion to her husband and domestic priorities.
Her gym experiences and bodyguard consideration demonstrate that traditional marriage doesn’t eliminate safety concerns.
Even married women committed to traditional values face harassment and danger.
The Stalker’s Sophistication
The stalker’s impersonation tactics demonstrate disturbing sophistication.
Pretending to be her eyelash technician, photographer, and doctor required research.
He identified people in Monica’s life and mimicked their communication.
This level of dedication and deception indicates dangerous obsession.
The unknown identity adds ongoing unease since the threat could resurface.
Bystander Intervention
The train station incident highlights bystander intervention’s crucial role.
Strangers who intervened prevented Monica’s abduction.
Their willingness to get involved likely saved her from serious harm.
The incident demonstrates why women value busy, public spaces over isolated areas.
Hiring Challenges
Finding the right bodyguard involves more than just security skills.
Monica needs someone who can “scare people off” without excessive aggression.
The person must navigate gym and photoshoot environments appropriately.
Professional discretion matters since constant visible security draws attention.
Two Years Later
Monica first mentioned bodyguard plans in 2022.
The fact she’s still discussing it in 2024 suggests either difficulty finding someone suitable or ongoing consideration.
The persistent gym attention apparently hasn’t improved over two years.
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