An OnlyFans model has shared that fellow mums give her the “death stare” because they are terrified that she will sleep with their husbands – saying she is “too hot for daycare”.
Lena Nersesian, 31, also known as ‘Lena The Plug’, has more than 1.6 million fans on YouTube (@freelenatheplug), having gone viral after revealing that she lets friends sleep with her partner, Adam John Grandmaison.
The couple live in Los Angeles with their toddler daughter.
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Aside from Lena’s unusual career, the model insists the trio are a normal family, however the model is often met with “death stares” by fellow parents who “give her a wide berth” at daycare.
“I think some of these mums think I’m going to strip and start having sex with their husbands right there if they don’t watch my every move,” Lena told NudeNewz.
“In their minds, I’m some kind of perverted sexual beast that wants to sleep with anything that moves.
“I mean ‘come on? Who does that?’
“I’m not a homewrecker; I’m a successful blogger, entrepreneur and businesswoman who has built my brand up from nothing.
“My fiancé is just as successful and we have respect for ourselves and others, regardless of what some people may think.
“They can give me all the death stares they want – frankly, I couldn’t care less.
“If anything, it reflects badly on them.”
Credentials Beyond Sex Work
Despite her success, Lena, who also has a degree in psychology and used to work with disabled children in the past, says her business skills fall on “deaf ears” as critics can’t see past the sex.
She said: “It’s sad in a way but only for them.
“It’s 2022 and people should be able to see beyond lazy stereotypes.
“Unfortunately, they are still well-entrenched with some people but there is nothing I can do about that.
“I just hope that the next generation isn’t as afflicted by them as the current ones.”
Lena’s background working with disabled children and her psychology degree demonstrate qualifications that daycare parents likely overlook when forming judgements based purely on her current career.
The dismissal of her business acumen – building a brand from nothing to generate substantial income – reflects how sex work overshadows all other accomplishments in some people’s minds.
Like other OnlyFans creators who face social stigma, Lena navigates constant judgement in everyday parenting spaces.
Normal Family Life
Lena met Adam, a professional BMX rider and blogger, in 2016 and the pair began performing on OnlyFans together a year later.
Outside of their unconventional work lives, the pair enjoy a normal family life consisting of home-cooked meals, day trips to the park, and movie nights.
She said: “I hate to disappoint but most of my home life is incredibly normal and very unexciting.
“I’m a big foodie and love cooking for the family; it could be anything from baking to a roast but it is great family time together.
“I have Armenian heritage and family is incredibly important in that culture. We celebrate milestones like when my daughter had her first tooth last year.
“For me, it helps her understand her culture and is also a great reason to get together as a family.
“Those are the happiest times for me.”
The Open Relationship That Went Viral
Lena’s viral fame stems partly from her public revelation about her relationship arrangement with Adam, where she allows friends to sleep with her partner.
This openness about non-traditional relationship structures, combined with their OnlyFans work, has made the couple controversial figures.
The daycare mums’ discomfort likely stems not just from Lena’s OnlyFans career but from the widely publicised details of her open relationship.
Their fear that Lena might “steal their husbands” could reflect anxieties about someone who publicly demonstrates willingness to engage in non-monogamous arrangements.
However, Lena’s distinction between her consensual open relationship with Adam and being a “homewrecker” highlights an important difference – consent and boundaries exist even in unconventional arrangements.
Armenian Heritage and Family Values
Lena’s emphasis on Armenian cultural values and family importance creates an interesting contrast with how daycare parents perceive her.
The celebration of her daughter’s first tooth and commitment to teaching cultural heritage demonstrate traditional family values that might surprise those who only know her through her OnlyFans persona.
Her description of cooking family meals and celebrating milestones paints a picture of domesticity that clashes with the “perverted sexual beast” image she says other parents project onto her.
The Touchy Subject Podcast
Lena also recently launched a new podcast series called Touchy Subject, where interviewees, including fellow OnlyFans stars, bare their souls, and no subject is off-limits.
The podcast represents another dimension of Lena’s entrepreneurial activities beyond OnlyFans content creation.
By creating a platform for conversations about taboo topics, Lena positions herself as someone facilitating important discussions rather than simply creating adult content.
Setting an Example for Her Daughter
She hopes to set an example for her son and for other women that you can be sexual, work and still be a great parent.
[Note: The transcript mentions both “daughter” and “son” – this appears to be an inconsistency in the source material]She added: “Working as a performer has given me immense freedom to pursue my goals.
“I had a bit of time off after I had my daughter and it allowed me to reassess what I wanted to do.
“Being a mum is the most important job in the world and whenever I am not with my daughter I feel guilty.
“But I still want to work and I don’t think that women should feel they have to choose.
“It may not be to everyone’s taste but I love it and it makes me feel sexy and fulfilled.
“It also puts a roof over my family and food on the table.
“If that is not freedom and progression for women, then I don’t know what is.”
The Maternal Guilt Factor
Lena’s admission that she feels guilty “whenever I am not with my daughter” reveals that she experiences the same maternal guilt as the parents who judge her.
Her insistence that women shouldn’t have to choose between work and motherhood echoes feminist arguments about work-life balance.
The irony is that the daycare mums giving her death stares are likely working mothers themselves, facing similar challenges of balancing careers and parenting.
Yet Lena’s career choice makes her somehow less acceptable in their eyes, despite the shared experience of maternal guilt and desire for professional fulfilment.
Freedom and Progression
Lena’s framing of her OnlyFans work as “freedom and progression for women” challenges conventional feminist narratives about sex work.
She argues that choosing this career – one that makes her feel “sexy and fulfilled” while providing for her family – represents empowerment rather than exploitation.
Whether other women agree with this framing varies widely, with debates about sex work, choice, and feminism remaining contentious.
For Lena, the ability to control her schedule, earn substantial income, and pursue entrepreneurial ventures while raising her daughter represents success by any measure.
The daycare mums’ death stares suggest they disagree – but Lena maintains that says more about them than her.
Professional BMX Rider Partner
Adam’s career as a professional BMX rider and blogger means both parents in the household have unconventional careers.
Their partnership on OnlyFans represents a joint business venture as much as a relationship dynamic.
The couple’s combined success – both described as “successful” in their respective fields – creates a household dynamic very different from traditional family structures.
Yet Lena insists the fundamentals remain the same: home cooking, park visits, movie nights, and cultural celebrations.
For now, Lena continues navigating the school run death stares with indifference, confident that her definition of success – and good parenting – doesn’t require approval from judgmental daycare mums.
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