A mum in her 40s says she is having the best sex of her life – after spending the past decade exclusively dating men in their 20s.
Lana May, 42, from Los Angeles, US, claims getting frisky with men half her age keeps her looking young and isn’t phased that some of her lovers are just a few years older than her teenage daughter, Sasha, 17.
After getting divorced at 30, the mum-of-one has spent the last 12 years dating younger men, which sees her have sex up to seven times a day.
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Lana, who has 5,200 followers on Instagram (@thelanamay), also feels younger men are better at pleasing her in the bedroom and more open to trying new things – such as using sex toys and kinky outfits.
“I feel like a Queen with these younger men,” the OnlyFans model told NudeNewz.
“They are more open-minded and are up for anything.
“After spending a night with them I have this glow and sparkle in my eyes.
“I call it getting my ‘youth juice’.”
High Sex Drive and Stamina Match
Not only are the toyboys allegedly kinkier but according to the life coach, they can also keep up with her high sex drive, which is “through the roof” at the moment.
She meets her young lovers using dating apps but is also frequently picked up by men while out and about in California.
Lana, who is raking in the cash on OnlyFans, said: “They make me feel great and I give off this energy, which just attracts more.
“They gravitate towards me whether that be on the apps or somewhere in person.
“If I have young hot guys coming my way I’m going to say fuck it and embrace it. Why wouldn’t I? It keeps me young.
“Role play, sex toys, they’re up for it all. And any time of day.”
Seven times daily sex represents an extraordinary frequency that most people – regardless of age – would struggle to maintain long-term.
Lana’s claim that younger men can keep up with this demand suggests either exceptional physical compatibility or an exaggerated figure for effect.
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Like other OnlyFans creators who build brands around sexual prowess, Lana’s public persona centres on insatiable desire.
Why Younger Men Over Peers
Lana’s preference for men in their 20s extends beyond physical stamina to emotional factors.
She said: “They are also more respectful than older men. They’re not jaded and life hasn’t fucked them up like it has with men in their 40s.”
Her belief that men her own age have been “fucked up” by life suggests negative experiences with age-appropriate partners drove her toward younger alternatives.
The characterisation of younger men as more “respectful” challenges stereotypes about immature 20-somethings versus established men in their 40s.
Whether younger men are genuinely more respectful or simply more deferential to an older woman with experience remains debatable.
Daughter’s Response
And although many of her lovers are closer in age to her daughter, Lana says she doesn’t care and her family supports her choices.
She said: “My daughter and her partner tease me but it’s all in good faith.
“I’ve even had some of her school friends ask to take me on dates.”
The revelation that Sasha’s school friends have asked Lana on dates represents perhaps the most controversial aspect of her dating life.
These requests would involve teenagers or very young adults – people Lana knows through her daughter’s social circles – proposing romantic relationships with their friend’s mother.
Most parents would find this scenario deeply uncomfortable, but Lana frames it as validation rather than boundary violation.
Her daughter’s teasing “in good faith” suggests either genuine acceptance or performance of acceptance for her mother’s benefit.
Mixed Reactions from Friends
However, life coach Lana says she has been shamed by some friends for her unconventional outlook.
She added: “It’s been a mixed bag.
“I’ve had recently divorced girlfriends come up to me and say thank you for giving them permission [to sleep with younger men too].
“They, like many people in society, have been conditioned into thinking this is wrong.
“If a man does it, nobody cares. But there’s still this shame around women getting with younger men.
“But I’ve also had tonnes of people in my circle say ‘What are you doing?’ and telling me I am wasting my time.
“I’m just having fun. I’m so over feeling like I have this dark secret.”
Lana’s observation about gendered double standards holds merit – older men dating significantly younger women face less social censure than the reverse.
Her role in giving divorced friends “permission” to pursue younger men suggests she’s positioned herself as an authority on age-gap relationships.
The contrast between friends thanking her and others questioning her choices reflects how divisive age-gap relationships remain, particularly when the woman is older.
The “Youth Juice” Philosophy
Lana’s concept of getting her “youth juice” from younger men frames the relationships as almost vampiric – extracting vitality from youth.
She said: “As I said, it keeps me looking young. I’m inundated with all these young, perfect bodies so I’m going to make sure I take care of myself too to keep up.
“So it’s a win-win all round.”
The admission that she must “take care of myself too to keep up” with young partners’ bodies reveals the pressure this lifestyle creates.
Maintaining attractiveness to men half her age requires ongoing effort that wouldn’t be necessary with age-appropriate partners.
Her “win-win” characterisation ignores potential downsides – the emotional shallowness of relationships based primarily on physical attraction and sexual novelty.
Life Coach and OnlyFans Duality
Lana’s dual identity as life coach and OnlyFans creator creates interesting tensions.
Life coaching typically involves helping clients with personal development, goal-setting and overcoming obstacles – work that requires credibility and trust.
Her OnlyFans presence and public statements about prolific casual sex with much younger men may complicate professional perception.
However, she could argue her lifestyle demonstrates the confidence and boundary-breaking she encourages in clients.
Twelve Years of Age-Gap Dating
Lana’s exclusive pursuit of younger men since her divorce at 30 means she spent ages 30-42 dating men born when she was in her teens or early twenties.
This consistent pattern suggests genuine preference rather than occasional fling, distinguishing her from women who date younger men sporadically.
The deliberate exclusivity – never dating age-appropriate men – indicates this is core to her identity rather than circumstantial.
The Conditioning Argument
Lana’s claim that society has “conditioned” people to think older woman/younger man relationships are wrong attempts to position her choices as progressive resistance.
She frames criticism not as legitimate concern but as internalised social programming that needs challenging.
This argument has validity – age-gap relationships face different scrutiny based on gender – but can also dismiss reasonable questions about power dynamics and compatibility.
Daughter’s School Friends Boundary Issue
The most problematic element of Lana’s narrative remains the school friends requesting dates.
Even if these young men are technically adults (18+), they exist within her daughter’s peer group and social world.
Dating her daughter’s friends creates potential for significant family complications, regardless of Sasha’s claimed acceptance.
This boundary-crossing suggests either exaggeration for shock value or genuine inability to recognise appropriate limits.
The Physical Toll
Seven times daily sexual activity, even with willing younger partners, represents physical demands that may not be sustainable long-term.
Lana’s current “through the roof” sex drive may naturally decline, leaving her either chasing increasingly younger partners to maintain frequency or eventually adjusting expectations.
The lifestyle she describes requires not just willing partners but also her own continued high libido and physical capability.
For now, Lana continues her exclusive diet of 20-something men, positioning herself as pioneer challenging double standards – though critics might argue she’s simply avoiding age-appropriate relationships whilst her daughter’s friends orbit uncomfortably close.
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